Life is a blend mix of emotions – happiness, joy, pain, anger, grief and sorrow. I believe, each of us has encountered one or the other in different stages of life. At this point more than advice, one needs is a genuine shoulder to cry on and expects us to LISTEN! Life is not simple as it looks, rather it’s an unanswered question.
Too many ways to look at it, but little I have learnt is that understanding one’s pain is the biggest gift you could give. Having personally experienced numerous downfalls, I understand what it feels like to be in a painful situation and not having someone to share the agony. You don’t need to be a professional counselor having a lavish office with a solid colour couch to do that, all you need is HEART!
Again, I haven’t mastered or specialized in Counselling, but emphasizing on the importance of developing a bond. Emotions don’t require a certificate, its just feelings and sympathies which binds two people. I don’t want to sound gyaani (philosopher), neither impose anything, but would just like to reemphasize on the fact that connecting with people in today’s world is diminishing.
Open your heart to feel the emotions because our minds can only read words.